What’s Your Attachment Style?
Answer the 20 questions below, then click Submit to see your Wave/Island/Anchor tally.
1. When I’m in a committed relationship, I usually:
2. When conflicts arise, I tend to:
3. In a new romantic relationship, my biggest concern is usually:
4. When my partner wants to talk about a sensitive issue, I often:
5. In a long-term relationship, I’m most comfortable when I can:
6. I tend to see emotional closeness as:
7. If my partner seems distant, I usually:
8. My preferred way of handling big arguments is to:
9. When a partner tries to get closer, I sometimes:
10. My ideal daily communication with my partner involves:
11. If I sense my partner is upset with me, I tend to:
12. In serious relationships, I often notice that I:
13. I’m happiest in a romantic partnership when:
14. If my partner demands more emotional availability, I might:
15. My biggest fear in romantic relationships is usually:
16. Big changes in a relationship (like moving in) make me feel:
17. My past partners or close friends have described me as:
18. In disagreements, I’m most likely to:
19. My comfort level with expressing vulnerability is:
20. Overall, in intimate relationships, I see myself as: