There's a hardcore ideal within American culture of self-reliance, but really, that's just a bunch of bullshit.
Midlife
Why Discipline Matters
The Saturn Return: Ages 28 to 31
Most of our 20’s are spent trying on lots of different masks. We pick up ‘the partier mask’ and then put it down. Then we try on ‘the professional mask’ and then put that one down. During the ages between 28 and 30, we take a few masks that do work and fit and refine them into a persona that works for what our soul needs to learn in our 30’s.