When We Feel Like We’re On Our Own
It can feel like a heavy burden, almost like carrying a ton of bricks. When it seems like we can't count on other people, we tend to believe that we're alone and that nobody's got our back.
When Your Caveman Brain Takes Control
Once your inner caveman snaps into action, it has only four moves: to fight like a rooster, escape like a mouse, play dead like a possum or appease like a dolphin. You probably have a habitual preference for one of the four. Learn how to recognize your reactions.
Peeling Away Layers of Our Onion
Just when we think we have completed a body of personal work like overcoming shame, self loathing or chronic insecurity, it can sneak back up on us.
Dismember to Re-member
Collectively we are all being forced to reassess what's important and what matters. In a way, we are being dismembered in order to re-member. We are being disintegrated in order to reintegrate.
Blind Spots
Lettuce in your teeth: it’s no big deal, but it sucks to find out after that important meeting where everyone else saw it while you yammered away, blissfully unaware. Why didn’t anyone tell you? This article covers the four main kinds of blind spots and strategies for identifying and working with them.
Meet Your Inner Critic
What if you really want to believe in your intrinsic brilliance and ability to learn and grow from any situation, but there’s a part of you that just doesn’t buy it? It’s time we talk about the Inner Critic.
Befriending the Inner Child
We've all come to believe in some particular way that we are weak, slow, defective, ugly, unlovable or just plain, "not enough." We mistakenly believe that if we're mean or cruel enough, somehow we will slough off our bad habits. Instead, we're practicing being cruel to ourselves, sending us into a depression that deepens the hole we're already in.
Let Go of Perfectionism
Perfectionism will grind you down, make you afraid of risk and crush your creativity. And the world needs leaders who are energized, willing to go in bold, new directions and who are able to see a variety of possibilities.
Facing Negativity
Our experience of difficulty depends entirely on the meaning we bring to it. Some perspectives empower us and some render us incapacitated. How we hold the circumstances of our lives can either grow us or take us down.